9 Reasons Why Some African Ladies Will End Up Single For Life

1. Many African ladies will end up singles for life
because of media exposure - it is so disheartening how
a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from
morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on
television to watch another celebrity entertainment
channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s
mindset aside how to live a fake celebrity life being
promoted on television channels?
2. Many African ladies now dislike cooking and home
chores [/b]just because they had been totally
brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the
role of women in a family, and due to excessive
exposure to modern media that promotes gender-
equality in a destructive way that’s aimed at
destroying the unique African family setting that made
our previous African marriages everlasting and envious
to the westerns. Now, with this attitude, how do you
expect a African man to desire to marry when he knows
he is only buying more headache and trouble than
helper for himself?
[b]3. Excessive makeup turns most decent and
serious-minded men off- if you have observed, you will
discover that most men dislike excessive makeup, and
more don’t even like it at all; reason they often times
discourage their true loved ones to do away with it cos
it speaks ill of a lady even though so many men will
applaud and complement you for looking like an
Egyptian mummy. A slight makeup is okay; but if you
are out for marriage, try always to look simple and
natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-
minded, except you are still living in your high school
life and not thinking towards marriage.
4. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick &
Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a
lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with
less serious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he
would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the
slightest chance or disagreement.
5. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You
Date or Are Dating- because your best friend married
without contributing anything to the man that finally
married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way.
Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can
be a value and also add value to his life to convince
him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to
his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts,
nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping
him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental
and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability
that only bring requests and problems to be solved.
6. Your Friends Run Your Life - how do you expect to
find a husband when you still allow your clique of
friends to be dictating which man you meet is worthy
of your love and which is not? When will you wake up
and face the fact that those your best friends even
though they cherish you, wouldn’t want you to marry
before them or to marry the best man?
7. You Give Everything Out During Dating- As a single
lady who has not been taken to the altar, you need to
reserve some things for your husband to be, especially
your body, respect it and preserve it at all cost. In the
past, men rushed to marry to get certain things or
privileges they had been constantly denied while being
single. Such privileges include and not limited to:
constant sex and companionship, good food and tidied
home, etc. But today, a single man gets even the best
and of course more of constant sex, good food and
excellent home-keeping more than his married
counterparts, so tell me how the hell you want him to
desire to marry you when you have given him virtually
everything he desires from a wife while being his
girlfriend? And the most painful part of it all is that he
knows that you are prepared to cut down on sex
supply, cooking, home-keeping, etc once he marries
you, so why would he not want you to remain his
girlfriend for life?
8. You Package Yourself Wrongly - in your attempt to
look sexy, adorable and maybe appealing to guys, you
have derailed from appealing to appalling. In fact you
look more whorish than modest; more distractive than
attractive, and more disgusting than adorable. Your
dressing style determines who gets attracted to you
most times. If you dress high school, only high school-
thinking guys will be attracted to you, and if you dress
excessively sexy and provocative, only randy men will
come to you for urgent satisfaction of their immediate
sex urge, so don’t be fooled by media hyping of certain
kinds of dressing, they are meant for certain set of
ladies you wouldn't like to be associated with, be
careful. Remember, not all clothes that look sexy are
good for a seriously searching for a soul mate single
lady.
9. You Lack Manner, Character, Wisdom and Good
Home Upbringing- definitely, your ‘hot girl’, ‘pretty girl’,
‘sexy girl’ looks will win you so many men; both the
good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your
character and manner are the things that will determine
whether any of those men would stay or run after
accomplishing their evil missions. In order words, do
away with nagging, being possessive, challenging with
men in negative ways, the mentality of ‘what a man
can do a woman can do better’, a lie devil has used to
deceive and destroy so many ladies today, please do
away with it.